One of our taglines at FITH is "the assumptions are wrong." Nowhere is that more literal, or more damaging, than in how Gen X has understood neurodiversity. I'm the partner of someone diagnosed with autism and ADHD: AuDHD, at 59. He's ten years older than me. I'm not telling you that as an age thing, I'm telling you because it's the assumption I made. For years, the ten-year gap was where I put any challenges between us: this is just what happens when two people are a decade